Help, com mem !

I hear the French use it normally at the end of a sentence com mem (probably very wrong spelling).

I have asked a few friends but get a different interpretation every time and wondered how a British person would translate and use the words

Thanks

I thought it was quand même and use it as "all the same" or nonetheless etc etc ....

Thanks Tradzoner

your prob right, I only wrote it how it sounded to me, any other ways you would use it?

coulf you give an example in a sentence pls

Like a lot of French phrases it often has more than one meaning.

"Merci quand même" can mean thanks anyway.

"Tu le fais quand même" you do it nevertheless.

Can be used as we would use the word really on its own.

Quand même! Really!

C'est difficile, quand même, le français Its difficult, nevertheless, the french

Thank you very much  

Tradzoner wrote:Like a lot of French phrases it often has more than one meaning.
"Merci quand même" can mean thanks anyway.
"Tu le fais quand même"  you do it nevertheless.
Can be used as we would use the word really on its own.
Quand même!   Really!
C'est difficile, quand même, le français   Its difficult, nevertheless, the french  

Perfect! Nothing to add...
Votre explication est parfaite. Je n'aurais pas fait mieux en tant que français.